Making a Difference, Every Day

This is my first blog, so I'll start by introducing myself. If you're reading this, you probably already know me. My name is Ahmed Khokar, I'm a rising sophomore at the College of William and Mary, and I want to make a difference. That sounds a bit idealistic, but it's not as difficult as it may seem. In fact, many make a big difference without even realizing it!

Let me explain. Regardless of which career path I choose, I want to make a big difference. As a doctor, I could help to cure illnesses. As a writer, I could provide for someone what my favorite authors provide for me. As a teacher, I could help guide the future working men and women of the country. Any of these three careers would make me happy, but making a difference doesn't begin with a career choice.

I think the most important thing we can do to make a difference is to be sincere and honest. This is the basis of "Real Talk." Honesty will always have more of an impact on someone than politeness or flattery. Your words and actions will always be significant if they are sincere.

The little stuff can make a difference every day. I'm a big believer in smiles, whether you're smiling at someone, making someone else smile, or both. Smiles can make someone's day, even if it's a stranger, and can be dangerously contagious! Do you remember how you felt the last time you were walking somewhere, and someone smiled at you? The best part is it only takes a few seconds! Making someone laugh can do even more to make a difference. If just for a moment, a laugh can make people forget the stress in their lives. And hugs? Don't even get me started on hugs!

Your words, especially when sincere, can also make a difference. Tell your best friend you miss or are thinking of him/her! Tell your loved ones how much you care about them! You don't have to do these things every day, but they take 5 minutes and I guarantee they will make someone's day much better.

If you have free time, there are an infinite number of ways to make someone's day. Personally I love to write poems, and sometimes I write a short poem to share with a few friends. Whether it's a poem about life, love, or just something silly, it can be a good pick-me-up. You can take the initiative to plan a fun night out with friends. You can get a small present for someone, just because. The possibilities are endless!

So every day this summer I'm going to try to make a difference, one smile, one laugh, one hug, one poem at a time, and I hope you will join me.